Wednesday, October 07, 2015

Little Sally GALLUP

Row #3, Grave #308-10-038, GPS 41.41671 N - 71.97186 W (Transcript from Hale Survey)
 Gallup, Sally, daughter of Christopher & Polly, died Mar. 29, 1800, age 1
(Note The Hale has her age at death as 1 year , but the stone has it as her 2nd year)
Photograph by Brian Zoldak, 2014

Little Sally GALLUP
Sister to Sarah, (the previous gravestone), Little Sally Gallup, daughter of Christopher and Martha GALLUP, was born 3 July 1798 and died 29 May 1800 in her second year of age. 

The Barbour Index tells us that there were two little girls named Sally so the gravestone here is the first little girl with this name. It could be that the second listing here is really supposed to be the little girl named Sarah. 

The stone reads that the mother's name is Polly, but we know her name was Martha and was known as Patty.

It is good to be able to read the gravestones, even if the actual records seems confused. 

Tuesday, October 06, 2015

Tombstone Tuesday: Sarah GALLUP

Row #3, Grave #308-10-037, GPS 41.41674 N - 71.97182 W
(Transcript from Hale Survey)
 Gallup, Sarah, daughter of Christopher & Patty, died Mar. 17, 1803, age 1 yr. 7 mos.
Not Quite Two or Aged 5?

Little Sarah GALLUP, daughter of Christopher and Patty Gallup was 1 year and 7 months old when she died OR was she older? This sandstone gravestone's lettering is a bit deceiving because the last part of the gravestone looks like a 5 or a 3 as the next part of the inscription implies. 

We don't know when this gravestone was put in place and it may mark the resting place of both little girls. Next up is the little girl named Sally

Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Christopher GALLUP

Row #3, Grave #308-10-036, GPS 41.41670 N _ 71.97185 W 
(Transcript from Hale Survey)
 Gallup, Christopher, died July 30, 1849, age 85
photo by Brian Zoldak, 2014, used with permission

Christopher GALLUP
Christopher GALLUP (Nathan, Benadam, Benadam, John, John) was born and died in Ledyard, CT. He was born on 22 June 1764 and died on 30 Jul 1849. His gravestone has been repaired and reset as it has sunk into the ground as you can see by the discoloration at the bottom of the stone. He is buried next to his wife Martha STANTON Prentice, widow of Thomas Prentice.

Christoper and Martha had seven children (Gallup (2009) genealogy. Three children died young and one daughter remained unmarried. After Martha died in 1818, the unmarried daughter, also named Martha, must be the person living in the household with her father in the 1840 census. (1840 census: male 70-79 and female 40-49) 

Two daughters and a son were already married with families of their own by the time the 1840 census was enumerated.She died in May 1842 leaving her father living alone until he died in 1849 at the age of 85.

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Tombstone Tuesday: Martha "Patty" STANTON

Row #3, Grave #308-10-035, GPS 41.41670 N - 71.9719 W
(Transcript from Hale Survey)
 Gallup, Martha, wife of Christopher, and daughter of Phinehas Stanton, died Feb. 12, 1818, age 53
 (Note; The Hale has her age at death as 53 but the stone looks like it has 52 or 59)
Photo by Brian Zoldak, 2014, used with 
Beginning of "Row 3" at the Gallup Cemetery in Ledyard, CT

Sacred/to the memory of/Mrs. Martha Gallup/wife of/Christopher Gallup/ & Daugh.of Capt./ Phineas Stanton/she died Feb. 12, 1818/ Aged (unclear).

Martha Stanton was married to Thomas PRENTICE for about a year before he died and then she married Christopher GALLUP. Her maiden name was STANTON and as it says here on her gravestone she was the daughter of Phineas STANTON. She was born 17 Jun 1766 and died 12 Feb 1818 at the age of 51 ("in her 52nd year")

I needed to consult compiled genealogies that included surnames of Stanton, Prentice and Gallup to be sure of the correct connections. All of the Gallup genealogies agreed except the 2009 version which listed her husband Christopher Gallup as Christopher Prentice Gallup. The 1893 version (shown below) and the History of Stonington have the same information.

Gallup Genealogy (1893)
Martha was known to her family by the common nickname "Patty" and that is what they wrote on the gravestones for her children. 

Martha married Thomas Prentice (Daniel, Jonas, Samuel, Thomas, Thomas) but no record of that marriage is recorded. 

She married Christopher Gallup 13 April 1792. The History of Stonington states that the first Thomas Prentice came to Massachusetts from England. It is possible that his name was really Nathan Thomas Prentice as I have found a Nathan Thomas Prentice born to Daniel in the Barbour Index.

We do know that the first child of Martha and Christopher was born 17 Dec 1792. 

Friday, September 11, 2015


Photo by Midge Frazel, 2015
Time to STOP and take a vacation!

Tuesday, September 01, 2015

Heritage Highlight: Ada Broadfoot Curry

My parent's wedding reception, 29 Dec 1946. Aunt Ada with the hat and her husband and my cousins. 

Heritage Highlight: Ada Broadfoot Curry

Photo by Midge Frazel, 20 June 2002
My paternal aunt, Ada Broadfoot, wife of George Curry, and the mother of the only two first cousins that I have is buried at River Bend Cemetery, in Westerly, Washington, Rhode Island. She was a widow when she died and her headstone is next to her husband.

My father or my mother, always forgot to tell me that someone was sick or had died. Despite my status as family historian, it didn't seem important to include me and I find it embarrassing. All of them came to my father's funeral and graveside burial. It was a comfort. 

 As a small child on Memorial Day, there was a visit to this cemetery and I often went because, in those days, Westerly was a long car ride from Cranston. Now we have interstate 95 and a connecting road called the Westerly by-pass to get to this beautiful cemetery.

I liked my dad's family but I didn't see them often. All of my father's generation is gone now. 

I took this photo the day we buried my mother. I took my camera to the cemetery because I wasn't sure I could find the section without some photographs. This day was the day, I decided to start photographing family gravestones.

As you can see, there is only a year or birth and year of death on the headstone. My husband asked why her name was written with her maiden name and he was surprised when I answered that this is the correct way. My mother chose not to follow this rule which is odd because at the end of her life, she told people her name was Dorothy Stewart not Dorothy Broadfoot. Dementia can wind the clock backwards unexpectedly.

Because I interviewed the members of my paternal family when I was about eighteen (hand drawing my own family group sheets), I have Aunt Ada's name, date and place of birth and marriage date and place in her own handwriting. Later, her sister told me Ada's middle name was Langworthy. I can find no evidence of this except for the initial L. in a few census records. 

I knew Ada died as a widow in November 1985 from the Social Security database. Her date of death is not included on the cemetery plot card. I was glad to see that she is buried near her parents because I now know she was the daughter that took care of them and my father and his brother for many years.

A week or so ago, I searched the Google news archive hoping to find some obituaries that I didn't have. The local paper was and still is, The Westerly Sun but it is not included in the collection. However, the New London Connecticut newspaper called The Day, (still in publication) is and because of the proximity to Westerly, Rhode Island I was hoping to find some information without having to bother my retired cousins.

The Day, 19 Nov 1985, Vol 105, No. 139, page B11
I was very surprised to learn that my Aunt was so sick that she died at the Rhode Island Hospital.  I wasn't sure where she lived after Uncle George died. 

I have learned that when her mother, who was my grandmother died, Ada was the one who took care of my dad and my uncle as well as her father. That can't have been easy. She soon married and stayed in the house with her husband and my cousins as they were born. My Dad went to serve in WWII and when he returned, lived with his other sister in Providence where there was more work. Uncle Bill married Hannah in 1951 and they moved to her house. Ada finally had her own life.

Rest easy Aunt Ada.....

Thursday, August 27, 2015

Hundred Years

Photo by Brian Zoldak, 2014
Gallup Family Association was 100 years old in 2002

This looks like a good time to take a break and research more Gallup Gravestones and take some time off too!

Granite in My Blood will be on vacation until Tombstone Tuesday,  29 September 2015.

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

Tombstone Tuesday: Little Mason GALLUP

Row #2, Grave #308-10-034, GPS 41.41673 N - 71.97182 W
(Transcript from Hale Survey) Gallup, Mason, son of Mason & Huldah,
 died Apr. 16, 1830, age 4

Little Mason GALLUP was the son of Nehemiah Mason GALLUP II and his wife Huldah WHEELER. His father was often known as Mason.

His small gravestone reads: DIED/April 16, 1830/MASON/son of Mason &/ Huldah Gallup/aged 4 years. Notice that it was cracked and repaired. 

The Gallup genealogy (#2617 p. 326) states that little Mason was born 4 March 1826 and died 16 April 1830. He was the 8th child out of 12 born to this couple.

Thursday, August 20, 2015


Row #2, Grave #308-10-033, GPS 41.41670 N - 71.97183 W
(Transcript from Hale Survey)
Gallup Deziah (Desire), wife of Henry, died Apr. 16, 1866, age 91

Desire (Deziah or Desirah) STANTON, was the wife of Henry GALLUP, Jr. Her gravestone matches her husband in style and lettering and it just as hard to read clearly.

She lived to be over 90! The public Stanton genealogy is located here.

Deziah/wife of Henry Gallup/who died/ Apr. 16, 1866./ aged 91 years.

Desire was the daughter of Joseph STANTON and Hannah CHESEBRO and was the 5th child of eleven children. Desire (Joseph, Joseph, Joseph, John, Thomas) p. 167 Stanton genealogy (her father is #188)

She was born 10 Jun 1776 (as Desirah) Vol 2 p. 47) and married Henry GALLUP, Jr. (as Desire) 17 Nov 1793 by Christopher Avery, Elder [Vol 2 p. 47.] They had a daughter Ann, who married a HEWITT. In the 1860 federal census she is living in a HEWITT household. 

Tuesday, August 18, 2015

Tombstone Tuesday: Henry GALLUP, Jr.

Row #2, Grave #308-10-032, GPS 41.41676 N - 71.97184 W
(Transcript from Hale Survey)
Gallup, Henry, died Nov. 22, 1831, age 77
Henry GALLUP, Jr's gravestone does not indicate that he was a Junior, does it? The Italic script and the composition of the stone are a bad combination.

It reads: In/Memory of/ Henry Gallup,/who died/Nov. 22. 1831/Aged 77 years.

The Gallup (2009) Genealogy states that Henry, Jr. was born 17 Oct 1758 and died 22 Nov 1831, so he would be 73 when he died but it certainly does look like 77 to me.

"In 1779, he was a private at Fort Griswold under Capt. John Williams, Co. Nathan Gallup's regiment. " [p. 186]

Henry married Desire Stanton on 17 Nov 1793 by Christopher Avery. They had 3 children.